Learning About Being In the Doghouse, Part 1 of 3 –
Being in the doghouse with someone is something we’re all familiar with. We don’t usually analyze Christ being in the doghouse, though. Yet even here he was our perfect example. Again, cultural differences prevent us from really “getting” what was conveyed to the original audiences of Luke 7:36-50. This 3-part series is about this scene with Simon the Pharisee and the parable Jesus told.
The Scene
From Poet and Peasant and Through Peasant Eyes,
We may…infer that before the episode which the story related took place, Jesus has preached a sermon which had impressed them all, the host, the guests, and an uninvited guest, a woman…. When the synoptics speak of “reclining” for a meal indoors they mean a banquet…. We can assume a relatively formal occasion…traditional roles of guest and host are expected…entertainment is a public affair. The gateway of the court, and the door…stand open… A long, low table, or more often merely the great wooden dishes, are placed along the center of the room, and low couches on either side, on which the guests…recline, leaning on their left elbow, with their feet turned away from the table.
The Pressure
You may recall my recent blog in which I covered the expectations and pressures of a community for entertaining guests. Their culture made a huge ordeal of treating guests with the utmost honor and respect possible. This is always a community affair.
Everyone on coming in takes off his sandals…leaves them at the door, socks…being unknown. Servants stand behind the couches, and placing a wide, shallow basin on the ground, pour water over it on the feet of the guests. To omit this courtesy would…imply that the visitor was one of very inferior rank…. Behind the servants the loungers of the village crowd in, nor are they thought obtrusive in so doing…. [This explains] how the woman achieved access to the house and how she could stand behind Jesus at his feet…with his legs stretched out…she is ashamed to approach his face for…her sins…
The Feet
We should explore more the feelings and thoughts about feet in that era, too.
…the feet are always placed behind the one reclining because of the offensive, unclean nature of feet in Oriental society from time immemorial until the present…the ultimate triumph for the victor and insult to the vanquished was to “make the enemy a footstool” (cf. Psalm 110:1)…. Moses is obliged to take off his unclean shoes…. John the Baptist uses the illustration of untying…shoes to express his total unworthiness….
The Community
Next week I’ll explore more the treatment of women in the first-century context. But for this week I should briefly mention the key to the tension in this story must be in what Jesus said before the meal. Note that the servants were the ones who washed feet. So the servants were obeying their bosses when they refrained from washing Christ’s feet.
This wasn’t just Simon’s silent treatment. This was a community coming together to give Jesus the silent treatment. They were all observing it being done, remaining silent about it, and thus they were all complicit in this endeavor. All for one and one for all, as is always the pressure in community events, and particularly in hosting guests. What did Jesus say that brought all this on?
The Certainty
One thing is for sure. Jesus stayed and remained quiet about it all until it was necessary to comfort the woman kissing his feet. He did this rather than leaving or confronting Simon immediately. He taught us to respond with long-suffering and politeness even to rude behaviors, and not in an offended way, but in a patient and thoughtful-of-others way.
The Application
Don’t leave until it’s absolutely necessary to make the most effective statement possible. Even then, do it graciously. Not with self-righteous anger or in an offended way.
May God give each of us more of this unconditional love and gracious gentleness.
The above artwork is scanned and edited from Jesus and His Times, by Reader’s Digest, and Living in the Time of Jesus of Nazareth.
